Some people ask, "what did I do to deserve this shit?" And they ask everyone. Saying how good they are and the contributions she made. All this time, they don't know people are snickering behind her and saying, " you think you so great? everyone don't like you!"
Just a piece of advice. This is what my dad always says to me. If one person complains about you, he has a problem. If everyone complains bout you. Then YOU have problems. Before you blame the whole world for what they've done to you, think of what you had done first. In the first place, do you treat people like shit? Do you say things that they don't understand? Do you brag about things that you don't even do? If you do, then that's the freakin reason everyone hates and complains and shun you from their lives.
Everyone deserves a chance, and you will have gotten many chances to. Some of this type of people (including me) blew their chances away.
Me, I'm not perfect, nor am I good in anything. But, I do not brag, or tells people stuff they don't understand. I don't tell people how good I am. And I hope they are okay with me. My friends, and family and stuff. Sometimes, I DO brag. Jokingly. Like I would say something like, "I'm gonna marry the prince, and be richer than anyone else! hahahahaha!!" Then, I will be like "jking lar... dun so serious xD"
The thing is... I know my faults. Just that, I don't change much. And do you know? Those people that have a strong feeling bout me, or have high hopes on me. They get all dissapointed. And I feel pressured. And I'll be like, " why do everyone have so high hopes on me?" Just to tell them, that everytime I feel you guys's dissapointment (etc. my teachers, parents, family, friends), I feel really really sad. All my life I've been trying to make people happy with me for once. And they'll say something like, "Good job Vanessa!" But that rarely happens. Coz no matter how hard I do something, I don't succeed. And people end up dissapointed. Again. haix~
Anyways, to the people that wonder why they got hated and complained, lets just say there's something you have to change inside of you. And you need time to make people trust and love you. Gambateh =]
Just a piece of advice. This is what my dad always says to me. If one person complains about you, he has a problem. If everyone complains bout you. Then YOU have problems. Before you blame the whole world for what they've done to you, think of what you had done first. In the first place, do you treat people like shit? Do you say things that they don't understand? Do you brag about things that you don't even do? If you do, then that's the freakin reason everyone hates and complains and shun you from their lives.
Everyone deserves a chance, and you will have gotten many chances to. Some of this type of people (including me) blew their chances away.
Me, I'm not perfect, nor am I good in anything. But, I do not brag, or tells people stuff they don't understand. I don't tell people how good I am. And I hope they are okay with me. My friends, and family and stuff. Sometimes, I DO brag. Jokingly. Like I would say something like, "I'm gonna marry the prince, and be richer than anyone else! hahahahaha!!" Then, I will be like "jking lar... dun so serious xD"
The thing is... I know my faults. Just that, I don't change much. And do you know? Those people that have a strong feeling bout me, or have high hopes on me. They get all dissapointed. And I feel pressured. And I'll be like, " why do everyone have so high hopes on me?" Just to tell them, that everytime I feel you guys's dissapointment (etc. my teachers, parents, family, friends), I feel really really sad. All my life I've been trying to make people happy with me for once. And they'll say something like, "Good job Vanessa!" But that rarely happens. Coz no matter how hard I do something, I don't succeed. And people end up dissapointed. Again. haix~
Anyways, to the people that wonder why they got hated and complained, lets just say there's something you have to change inside of you. And you need time to make people trust and love you. Gambateh =]
1 comment:
Love the picture you have as the background. Good to know you like spiritual stuff - the metaphysical things of life make it so rich and deep. Keep looking, Vanessa - you'll find great things out there.
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